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Too much anxiety can deflate our boners, but a little anxiety can boost our arousal responses. When our hearts are beating quickly and our pressure is rising, our capacity to feel sensation can correspondingly heighten at the same time. Public sex can be a thrill if we think that we might actually get caught. We play delicately with the threshold of how much risk we can stand. If we risk too much too quickly, we lose enjoyment, but the right amount of risk can help us experience peak arousal. To spontaneously claim our rights to be sexual in the midst of a civilization that suppresses sexuality is an act of rebellion that can boost our sense of pride in being gay men.